notesprawl

this was originally a bit of a joke, but i also knew when joking that i was going to want to revisit this (joke about outcomes

you can look it up

The idea for this post came up mid-conversation with @neuranne when I was telling her about how inspired I was by an audio ess

copes

trying to reduce reliance on a cope (cigarettes, screentime, etc) is v difficult. it gets much easier if you define an outcome

do less

this one is a bit counterintuitive: if you’re starting a youtube channel or a blog or something, i believe you shouldn&#

rugpulls

placeholder post for future rugpull content A useful bit of vocabulary from the world of crypto is the idea of the ‘rugpull�

discourse cycles

placeholder post for future updates

again

Sometimes repetition is a sign that you’re returning to something important. Sometimes it’s a sign that you’re failing t

sigh

I met an old friend for lunch a while ago. He observed that I was initially tense and weary, but that I then visibly relaxed o

emotional knottedness

you’re unlikely to be less tired tomorrow if your tiredness is actually emotional knottedness, which requires dynamic ac

knowable

(original thread) since i was kid i always wondered why things weren’t better. i’ve probably spent thousands of ho

make yourself comfortable

“When we truly feel comfortable, the desire to improve is natural— no antagonism required, no debt incurred.” (d

journalling

I am always recommending to people that they ought to journal. Keep a diary, write your memoirs, it doesn’t really preci

quotes

I’ve thought from time to time that people don’t do a great job of quoting things. I figure I might as well make m

my creative process

“social mistake i used to make a lot was, always engaging with everyone the way I wanted to be engaged with, which was to be

What does it mean to “process” an experience?

(original thread) What does it mean to process something? I see versions of this question all the time, and I seldom see anybo

why were you late?

Here’s a story that I often tell people, and it’s useful enough that it’s worth writing up to share with mor

attention metrics

I usually bring up this thread/idea when talking with people about things like optimizing for views or follower counts. The th

the world is big

“Every person takes the limits of their own field of vision for the limits of the world.” – Arthur Schopenhauer

language (orwell, russell)

Aug2023: This threadpost will likely eventually become part of a substack essay I’ve been stewing on titled “In ot

deviants

(original 2018 thread) it’s funny to consider how much of the conversation around things like “what makes you uniq

greatness is deviance

“Nations, like families, have great men only in spite of themselves. They do everything in their power not to have any.

it’s just math

when I was at 50 or 500 followers if I said I was going to have 50,000, people wouldve said I’m arrogant. (I didn’t say ex

people-shaped

This post is a quick sketch / copy-over of some tweets where I use the phrase “people-shaped”, which I think is so

when “women are people” doesn’t work

(original thread, Mar2023) Sometimes guys say “idk how to talk to girls” and the ladies respond (understandably, but unhel

most shared

Here’s a list of my blogposts that have been most shared on Twitter. ✱ Here’s a list of my blogposts according t

advice for people in their 20s

Transcript: “I asked people a while ago what content I should make on YouTube and somebody said talk about your 20s. And

safety rituals

the meta thing is, this sort of conversation itself will become a safety ritual if you don’t then take some action that

focus on what you want to see more of

This tweet has basically become The Central @visakanv Tweet. focus your time and energy on what you want to see more of &mdash

joke about outcomes you want

one of my riffs on Twitter that’s taken off and embedded in other people’s minds is the idea of “joke about

psychofauna

@BenRatkaj said he wanted a psychofauna bestiary. Etienne Preamble to a Psychofauna Bestiary Khalil Durkheim on the Nature of

Advanced Stupid

I have a lot to say about this, have been sketching drafts of this over and over, never quite satisfied, so here is a dump of

so you’ve been main character’d

the hardest thing about dealing with being main character’d is managing your psychology, your emotional / physiological resp

take baby steps

this is section 2.5 of introspect. “I always love it when people say ‘baby steps!’ to imply they’re be

the Losev problem

Born in 1903, Oleg Vladimirovich Losev invented LEDs decades before everybody else (in the 1920s). “Unknown and uncelebr

do whatever makes your heart sing

“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is peop

how to de-escalate tense situations

A thing i’ve gotten very good at that I just helped a friend in DMs with is de-escalating other people, eg someone DMs y

self-worth

this is one of those things where someone is trying to make you feel good with comforting noises, which is honestly sweet –

happiness

The following is a transcript of the above video, edited for readability. I think there’s a sort of mainstream understanding

Mint 100 Erasmuses

I’m shocked at how recently I learned about Desiderius Erasmus Roterodamus (1466-1536), who according to Wikipedia is co

words of power

Original thread here. I loved reading, all my life. Books gave me an interiority; entire multiverses within myself that no aut

write your memoirs

Whenever a friend says something like “I have some time to kill and I don’t know what to do”, I almost alway

the solution to your imposter syndrome is not inside your head

The problem of imposter syndrome (under-estimating yourself) and Dunning-Krueger (over-estimating yourself) are both addressed

“Shouldn’t I want to make the world a better place?”

The following is a section I cut from an old draft of INTROSPECT. I’m inclined to say no. Not until you’re ready to handle

civilization is potty training

Civilization is a kind of recursive, iterated potty training. See, the great thing about being an uncivilised barbarian is tha

what’s it like to live your dream?

(nov 18, 2021 thread) there are a bunch of things i wish some earnest person would ask me about, tho if i talk about it now it

how to DM your heroes

How to DM your heroes when they follow you 1. specific proof-of-work: “I’ve been a fan of your work and writing since the

encourage your friends to ship their ideas

(original thread) friendly subtweet: sometimes when someone has an idea to do something, the best thing you can do is not to s

ayy lmao

a lot of paradoxes might be best resolved with a sense of humor. (eg: dicking around can be productive, but if you’re an

status quo soldiers lose in the long run

Here’s a tiresome thing when some bad shit happens: when people unaffected by it actually spend their precious time and

shamans are meaning-workers

someone asked me for my definition of shaman. to me, a shaman is a meaning-worker. someone who is a deep appreciator, understa

things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh

in the 5+ years I worked for my ex-boss Dinesh (@dineshraju), he constantly would ask me about my goals & desired outcomes

2,000 copies of F.A.N sold!

2023 update: crossed 3,000 in June of this year! ✱ Today is October 16, 2021, and I just sold my 2000th copy of Friendly Amb

comms is lossy

It’s amazing that any of us are able to understand each other at all. Communication is lossy. (“Lossy” is a

oblique approaches can achieve what directness cannot

Tell all the truth but tell it slant —Success in Circuit liesToo bright for our infirm DelightThe Truth’s superb surpr

Aug29: AGI fire alarm drill day

In October 2017, Eliezer Yudkowsky wrote a post on intelligence.org titled There’s No Fire Alarm for Artificial General

self-loathing

Self-loathing is a form of narcissism it can seem like a harsh thing to say to someone who’s struggling with it, but it&

I use scapple to do my think-out-loud maps

I’ve somehow become an unintentional advocate/evangelist for Scapple, which is a mindmapping tool made by Literature &am

seek excellent peers

Whenever people ask things like “your best advice in 3-4 words” etc, I always go with “seek excellent peers&

accumulating social capital

(1) the creative life is lonely but freeing when nobody cares about your work (2) it gets good when discerning folks like your

Pericles

Pericles (495–429 BCE) was a prominent Athenian general and statesman. He died aged 66, of plague. I find him to be a fascin

“i’m such a failure”

This is a collection of posts and videos about failure and mistakes. learning to be ok with mistakes: It’s the panicky flinc

narrow utilitarianism

just as it takes the lows to define the highs, and the dark to define the light, if you want to be properly utilitarian, you m

memed into existence

This page is a collection of instances of the phrase “memed into existence”. I’m collecting them out of nerd

thinking is easy, information architecture is hard

This has been a recurring thing for me. There are lots of ways to rephrase this, reframe this. Coming up with the idea for a s

exhaustion funnels

2024-03-17: I find myself wondering, maybe this post should be retitled “why are you tired?”, in comparison to 

👶 a theory of pissbabies

The following post is meant to be fun, silly and tongue-in-cheek rather than serious, and yet at the same time I’m hopin

feral free agents

I’m not a fan of the word “unemployed”. First of all, it’s come to imply that the default state is 

the death and life of great scenius

The Death And Life Of Great American Cities is a book by 1961 by Jane Jacobs. It’s criminally underrated. Scenius is a p

🎨 everything is a remix

Everything Is A Remix [37:30] is a video by Kirby Ferguson. It’s one of the most powerful videos I’ve ever watched

coordination does not require conspiracy

Coordination does not require conspiracy. I think it’s great that the word “conspire” literally means “

🗽iconography

I think about iconography a lot, I have multiple twitter threads about them. I’ll eventually expand this into a blogpost

don’t be gullible

Seen two separate things recently on the TL about how substack is a scam and how NFTs are a scam and my personal read is that

aesthetics

A loose set of notes about aesthetics. What are aesthetics? Why don’t you just say beautiful, or pretty? Why use this

vision

1 ✱ We seem to be having a sort of crisis of vision, where hardly anybody seems to have interesting ideas about where we’r

small talk

1jul2024: I have more to say about small talk. people who say they don’t like it, seem to misunderstand it… ✱ &#

todo lists as narrative devices

every one of us is living in some kind of story. who are you? what is your name? where do you live? are you a student? what do

📱smartphones changed everything

The following is a set of notes for an essay I want to write. ✱ A common feature in fantasy fiction is powerful magical obje

systems thinking

To me, “systems thinking” is just “thinking”. If one’s thinking does not naturally lead them to

problems are solvable: define, solicit, integrate

(2020feb29 thread) I don’t usually think of myself as a very clear-headed person… until people come to me with their p

🧵hyperthreading

Do you have a single document that links to every single thing that’s important to you on the web? Why not? ✱ From tim

jinky, janky, junky

I think it’s cute how three different words – jinky, janky and junky – all have this venn diagram overlap that I lik

hostage

WIP / buncha notes There’s a 2018 video game called Detroit: Become Human. It has its pros and cons, I’m not sure I would

dealing with losers

(2020nov5 thread) I’m not a fan of divvying people up arbitrarily into winners and losers – one should never be gleefu

influences

Sometimes people wanna know who my influences are. It’s tough to assemble a perfect or exhaustive list, but here’s

talking points

This is a slightly edited repost of a twitter thread I once did at 520am in the morning to try and recap all of the things I t

fumbling the bag

There’s an exchange on Tinder(?) that I once saw on Twitter that I think about a lot. Read this really slowly and closel

“Wrong.”

This is more of my personal approach to things rather than some kind of claim about how the world works, or even how it should

shame

I’ve been thinking about shame lately. Here are some riffs, and maybe I’ll flesh this out into something more subs

persuasion

— 1 — One of the most powerful skills you can learn is persuasion. Persuasion is how you convince people to join your team

pave the desire paths

(2023sep25) Was just talking with @neuranne about creativity and ideas and I found myself naturally bringing up the idea of pa

word magic

— 1 — I have always been very passionate about words. As I said in the library ethos, I grew up reading books and have str

dominoes

I reference and revisit and reuse this tweet a lot so I figured I might as well do a blogpost about it. It’s been surpri

fuckability

fucking is labor, fuckability is capital many (most?) people wanna be fuckable more than they wanna fuck having good sex is a

constructive ADHD

this is a placeholder blogpost that will be updated with all my ADHD content I’m a fan of the phrase “constructive

troubleshooting arrogance

When I was a teenager, the dominant criticism my closest friends had of me was that I was too arrogant, and they were right. I

books

Books I’ve written: The first book that I published is called FRIENDLY AMBITIOUS NERD. The second book that I’m cu

👑 you are already the monarch of your life

— 1. talismans — A talisman is simply an object that is meaningful to you. Wedding rings are the most widely appreciated t

🧠❌ you can’t think your way out of a courage deficit

(dec2023: title of this post is a catchy tweet, but do I want it to be a post? idk. maybe i’ll expand on it.) Reflecting

ADHD

this post is now redirected to Constructive ADHD

⏱ 4 hours

Realistically, I can only ever be *truly* productive for 4 hours a day. Most days, I’m lucky to even have 2 truly good,

play long games

This is an “aggregate” blogpost where I dump stuff from my tweets and notes. — What do I mean by long game? One

Most People

I’ve been sharing this set of notes more and more as time goes by. I suppose you could say most people care too much abo

do 100 things

“Do 100 Thing” is a phrase I came up with when riffing around the idea of being prolific, making lots of stuff. It

talent is not rare, talent is clueless and scared

(see also: greatness is deviance) When I was younger I thought that talent was rare, but as I get older I realize that the ans

🎸 let’s jam!

dec2023 update: I should talk about wooten, werner, mayer, the beatles, paramore, guns n roses… In my cornerstone post T

📚 the library ethos

John Locke: “Books seem to me to be pestilent things, and infect all that trade in them… with something very perve

iterating Introspect

I came up with the idea for INTROSPECT sometime in 2018 or so, even before I thought of writing FRIENDLY AMBITIOUS NERD (which

risk

post to be updated over time 2024oct19— the question I have for myself here is, how does this usually come up? How do people

after gifted

AFTER GIFTED is an ebook that I’m working on to help formerly gifted kids find success and happiness in life. Optimistic

kids in shitty social graphs

The following is a riff from a twitter thread I once wrote that I reference fairly often. I’m choosing to reproduce some

🗣 hecklers

I’ve been thinking a lot about hecklers lately. There are a bunch of related-ish words, with varying connotations: hater

narcissism

Usually, if you ask someone to imagine a narcissist, the first image that comes to mind is someone enjoying how they look. Som

magic junkyard

just doing the thing where I coin a phrase and then track how it spreads “We’ve been called everything from”

👑 earn self-respect

(see also: self-loathing, self-worth) I think it’s important to earn one’s own self-respect. What does that mean?

☢️ the apocalypse test

A thing I do that brings me great clarity is to focus on individual people over everything else. I don’t care much about

⚔️ optimize for survival

The big lesson of survivor bias is that you should optimize for being a survivor. You can’t win if you lose – so learn

unlearning coercion

It took me a long time (maybe 10-15 years?) to properly realize that I was in an abusive relationship with myself, where my se

cold emails

If you get really good at cold emails, comms and positioning, you can run circles around people who rely on warm intros in sma

🤝 how I rebuilt my trust in myself

A friend once said, regarding my Twitter, “I like how Visa says he’s going to do something, then immediately does

🙏🏾 how to ask for help

One of my new personal rules for myself is, if something annoys me, I’m going to funnel that into content that I can ref

🗿 don’t pedestalize people

I use the term Pedestalization to describe the act of putting someone on a pedestal. Hero worship is pedestalization. Some peo

status and status regulation

2024oct15: there was a period of time where this seemed like one of the most important concepts I’d ever heard of, but I

elitism

It’s interesting how often the phrase “elitism” comes up when I solicit feedback from others. I’m aware that this will

❌ when and why I block people

(I’m thinking about this mainly in the context of Twitter, but there are some general principles here too.) I don’

🍀 the 4 kinds of luck

“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” – apocryphal quote typically attributed to Seneca I&#

🏛 the prestige trap

I’ve had several conversations with friends who’ve been incapacitated by the burdensome bullshit obligation to Hav

learned catastrophizing

I get young people in my DMs all the time. A common thing I notice about their despair is that they do a lot of generalizing (

listen to kids

About once or twice a week I get some long DMs, usually from a younger person, who’s all stressed out and wound tight about

soften the ground

(Twitter thread) I notice a thing in my media consumption patterns where sometimes there’s something I want to watch or

depression

I’m keeping this post on standby because from time to time people ask me what to do if one is depressed, or thinks they

take deep breaths

The following post is an ongoing-work-in-progress. The goal is for me to make sense of my learnings about breath and breathwor

how to be more optimistic

Optimism to me is not merely a posture or an attitude, but a way of being.

project management

Project management, I think, is one of the most important life skills that I was never quite taught. In a sense, it’s th

thinking

Hey, friends. So for today’s adlib, I’m gonna try and do 2 separate videos back to back or maybe I’ll just d

masculinity

I’m not sure when I first started really thinking about what it even means to be a man, what masculinity is. I think it&

friendly ambitious nerd

My first book, FRIENDLY AMBITIOUS NERD, is now available for sale! gum.co/FANbook You may also be interested in reading about

48 Laws of Power, by Robert Greene

I’ve often encountered 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene being cited as a red flag – “ladies, if your man claims

➡️ pay it forward

When I was a broke teenager, my older friends often insisted on paying for drinks or meals. I used to feel a potent mix of gra

🔥 bestof 2010–2019

These are things that I’ve read or watched that stuck with me in the 2010s. 2010 Ugh Fields [lesswrong.com] Solitude and

💬 practice good reply game

There is an art to replying and commenting, and probably like 60-70% of people I’ve seen on the internet fail at it. The imp

↗️ many people like to contribute to vectors, few like to own them

moved to /marketing/vector

🗣 talking to people makes you a better writer

A friend asked me for some advice on a massive writing project that he’s had on the backburner for a while now. It sound

⚔️ twitter_rpg_strategy_guide.txt

twitter_rpg_strategy_guide.txt Twitter is a multiplayer real-time virtual world, primarily text-based with limited multimedia

🍵 empty your cup and allow life to surprise you

2024apr29: I think this wants to be a more substantial post about attention. consider my recent conversation with dinesh about

👩🏾‍🚀 representation matters

a recurring point I find myself making in private conversations is that I believe that representation might possibly be the #1

😂 learn to laugh at yourself

One of my private beliefs that doesn’t translate very well is that true comedy is sacred. And not sacred as in solemn, but s

👋🏾 everyone loves to make a great introduction

I think the big secret of social life is that everybody loves to make a great introduction. If you can become someone that peo

🤡 the world is not kind to those who are tacky

Late night thought: “Don’t be tacky (unless you know why you’re doing it)” is a surprisingly powerful heuristic for me

🔟 @visakanv’s top 10 lifehacks

(Originally posted on Twitter) 10. Do 1,000 of something. Anything, it doesn’t matter what. Really. When was the last time y

🌉 friends I met in SF

I was going through my photos and I wanted to keep track of all the people I met. Unfortunately sometimes I met someone and di

📜 blogs that I like to read

In the old days, people used to have lists of links on their blogs to other blogs that they liked reading. Here’s mine.

⏩ ages 17 to 29

Dear Visa-17, Visa-29 here. So I recently got on a Singapore Airlines plane (I know, finally!) and flew across the planet to S

🇺🇸 San Francisco [2019]

Dear Visa-17, Visa-29 here. So I recently got on a Singapore Airlines plane (I know, finally!) and flew across the planet to S

⚠️ how to get my attention

(There’s quite a bit of preamble in this post before I get to the answer – just scroll down past the hot dogs if you&#

📱 screentime

I had a large amount of screentime as a child. And if I could go back in time and have a do-over, I would have liked even more

👯‍♀️ make friends

I’ve kind of developed a name for myself as “the friendly guy”. My book is titled FRIENDLY AMBITIOUS NERD. I

🕸 VV’s memex – a map of directives to live well

I saw a picture of “Bay Area Memespace“, and for some reason I felt compelled to put together my own “@visak

👫 relationships are challenging + a lot of work

Preamble: Hello everyone! This post has been getting shared a little bit, so I thought it might be worth taking some time to p

🤓 ‘Smart Writing’ is about cultivating taste, suspending judgement and chasing your curiosity

I saw someone tweet “I wish smart writing came to me as easily as dumb tweeting” — and so I am here to share my strategy

💃🏾 flirting is about signalling interest with plausible deniability

What I tell my nephews: flirting is basically this – give moderately strong signals of interest with plausible deniabili

🎓 I flunked out of the GEP

When I was 13, I flunked out of the gifted education program in my country. I was told that my failure was a disappointment to

✋🏾 we need to get better at dealing with assholes if we are to progress as a species

— 1 — As I get older I feel this subtle-but-strong pressure to become more “professional” – more “civil”, mo

#StrugglePorn – is it painting a false picture?

good conversation started here with Nat & Gary I’m not personally a fan of Gary’s overall brand, but I appreci

📷 my life in pictures

This post exists to help me, at a glance, get a sense of my own life over the years. 1990 – 1996 1998 2001 2003 2004 2006 20

🍱 I used to be a picky eater

I saw somebody make fun of picky eaters on Twitter, and I felt compelled to write about my own experiences. I was like this my

🗣 mansplaining is sometimes (but not always) innocuous

If I had to do a “the difference between men and women” type of standup set, I think I would focus on the phenomenon of ma

🍳 Breakfast AMAs

Every so often I have breakfast alone, and I ask Twitter to ask me questions. I enjoy it a lot – I find it to be a great way

👘 cultural cosplay: a broader framework for thinking about cultural appropriation

I’ve never quite been satisfied with the overuse of the phrase “cultural appropriation” in all sorts of cont

👓 different people have different mental models

People typically have high-res models of their own lives and lower-res models of other people’s. We are all born clueless wi

🤔 do you know what you want?

What do you want? Do you really want what you think you want, or did you inherit it from your parents, your peers, from societ

💋 Narcissist PR works because we can’t shut up about it

WIP I tweeted a more cautious version of this blogpost in July, and it’s been on my mind so I wanted to take some time t

🧐 It’s my fault and that’s a good thing

(notes for a future essay about self-blame, responsibility, the concept of fault) A long term tension in my life: I don't

🚥 a system can only be improved at its tightest bottleneck

I’ve been thinking a lot about Tiago Forte’s point about bottlenecks – that the only meaningful improvement you

📺 we turn our lives into mostly-predictable sitcoms

(The following is from a conversation with a friend, after an acquaintance told us about feeling suicidal) it’s interesting

🎖 NS helped me appreciate moments with people

Wrote this a few years ago. While I was still in NS. Around Dec 2011. I still remember when I went for my medical check-up a f

😈 sinister connotations allow people to be assholes with plausible deniability

I like words. It’s a big part of why I’m a writer. I like everything about them. Here are some interesting things

a list of some of my twitter threads

🚨 UPDATE: My book FRIENDLY AMBITIOUS NERD is out! Buy it now: gum.co/friendlynerdbook Hello! I’m @visakanv, my friend

🚦 constraints

I’ve written a lot about constraints over the years, and this blogpost strikes me as the best “master switchboard&

a sitemap of my memoirs

I have always been a somewhat scatter-brained person, and I’ve also always felt this sort of compulsion to catalog every

🙏🏾 an oral history of my relationship with religion

Thought I’d write about my thoughts about religion, and how my perspective on it has changed from my childhood to the presen

💍 reflecting on 4 years of marriage [2016]

Fun fact: Sharan Kaur and I got married 4 years ago today. It was kind of a secret. We did it over milkshakes and hotdogs at a

🔥 hypothesis: the 7 ‘sins’ are really ‘drives’ that can be harnessed

I once extensively dissected all the 7 deadly sins as a mental exercise (I was bored as a conscript, and I wanted to solve the

👀 when arguing, strive to understand context

— 1. When arguing, seek to understand context — [Published 2016] Roughly between ages 13 and 23 I was thoroughly convinced

🚀 the jetpacks of the 2020s will be whatever helps us navigate information overload

2023 update: feel like doing a little bit of metacommentary on this post. It’s interesting because I started piecing it

an analysis of power and social dynamics in ‘Mean Girls’

Theory: The movie has such enduring power and is quoted so much because it sheds some incredible light on real sociological ph

🐉 Drogon vs Balerion size comparison

The fun thing about this post is I basically cobbled it together out of my own frustration at not having a simple, easy, strai

🔬 a list of predictions, to test my understanding

Preamble Originally on HN: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9325637  It’s always interesting to look at old predic

🤯 ideas that expanded my mind

Disorganized notes. (Revisiting this again in 2023… I remember doing a twitter thread in maybe eigen’s repliesR

Politics and the English language [2016]

The following is my attempt to update George Orwell’s essay Politics and the English Language [1946] for modern reading.

⛰ one must imagine Sisyphus LOL-ing

Life, particularly in modern civilization, is an absurd circus. We’re all clowns living in boxes trying to amuse ourselves w

beating yourself up is egotistic

I learned that failure is by and large due to not accepting and successfully dealing with the realities of life, and that achi

💀 the heat death of the universe means legacy is ultimately futile

Pup Ponders the Heat Death of the Universe, (c) Drew Weing (I wrote this in 2013 in a a conversation with a friend, and decide

👨🏾‍🎓 my journey from underachieving student to moderately competent adult [2016]

An older friend told me that a parent wanted to talk to ‘learn about my educational journey’ and ‘understand

🔖 bookmarks that I often share with friends

Disclaimer – I find these reads interesting. I don’t necessarily agree with them.  #Bestof / Most Shared These are li

🤝 how to build and maintain communities

This blogpost started out as a bunch of notes and links, and I found myself sharing it with people over and over again so much

☕️ Is Ya Kun Kaya Toast “Authentic”?

Originally posted on Poached Mag. I was having kopi with some friends at Ya Kun Kaya Toast. A friendly auntie spoke to us in c