I deeply enjoyed Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power. It’s not like he’s saying anything new, but something about his writing style appeals strongly to me- I get the sense that we’d geek out about the same things. I can imagine him growing up reading the same stories, falling in love with the same myths and perhaps even playing the same video games.
So when I found out that he had a new book called Mastery, and it was about evaluating the success principles and strategies of effective individuals, I had to pounce on it. His style simply appeals to me too much. I decided I was going to apply whatever he suggested- not because there’s anything special about what he’s saying, but because I find his voice remarkably persuasive. Your mileage may vary.
1: Find your Life’s Task.
What am I best at? What do I have an intense feeling about? I think I’m best at working with words. I’m best at playing around with ideas. I’m not that good at coming up with original ones- I don’t even really know what original means, to be honest. I think I’m good at taking other people’s ideas, combining them and then presenting them in a fun way. I think I’m pretty good at figuring out what works or what doesn’t when it comes to the presentation of ideas- whether we’re talking about music, art, movies, books or TED Talks. Now, I’m not the best presenter out there. I don’t have the skill-set I need to even pretend that I have anything meaningful to contribute in any one of these fields. But if something had to be my Life’s Task, I imagine this would be it.
I have always felt a sense of affinity with writers like Voltaire, Benjamin Franklin, Francis Bacon and Michel Montaigne that I’m typically embarrassed to talk about, because anybody who claims to do so seems like a right loony. But I do, and I feel that I am ready to stop pretending that I don’t.
2: Find a niche where you can dominate.
The first niche that comes to mind is a particular space in Singaporean public discourse. There are lots of voices in the fray, but I feel that they tend to fall into two broad categories- the “academic” and the “popular”. (Both are very poor terms to use, but they’ll have to suffice until I can think of better ones.) The former: Huge walls of insight that are impenetrable to the layperson. The latter: cheap shots and incendiary link-bait.
3: Rebel against the wrong path, and use that anger as motivation.
This immediately makes me think about University.
Yes, I do suffer from a case of sour grapes. If I had a scholarship, or perhaps performed better in JC, I would have most definitely chosen to go to University, just as I would have gone to RI instead of VS if I had the necessary PSLE score. I will concede this as gracefully as I can. I have developed an “anti-University” stance primarily because of my status and position. I might have never done so otherwise. Yes.
But think about it- now that I’m in this position, what can I learn from it? Where is the control group when testing the hypothesis “University is a good idea”? You can’t just compare University students against people who would never have had a chance to end up there- that’s not a fair experiment. We need to compare people who spend $$ to go to university for a few years against people who could have gone, but didn’t (either by choice or happenstance)
My theory is that personal excellence is what matters, not the path you take. I find the idea of doing well outside of university to be far more exciting than doing well within it. Yes, this is influenced by the fact that I didn’t get any of the courses I was interested in.
4: Love your subject at a very basic level.
I do. This is why I blog, this is why I ended up becoming a Quora Top Writer 2012. I can spend hours arguing on the internet because I love it. I love discussion, I love conversation, I love evaluating the presentation of ideas, and I honestly don’t think I’ve ever encountered anybody else who loves it quite the way I do. (Emphasis on “the way I do”, not “as much as I do”!)
I do.
Just stumbled on your website after reading one of your Quora posts. Two thoughts.
1. Check out, if you haven’t already, Calvin Newport’s Study Hacks blog. You’ll like it if you like Robert Green’s Mastery stuff.
2. If you like arguing, I’d highly recommend doing some philosophy – in university. I’m a philosophy major, and I’ll be happy to talk to you sometime about what doing it in uni is like. (Go to uni la.)
Hey! Thank you so much for writing to me! I do follow calnewport, and I like him.
I’m sure Uni is awesome. But I’m developing a powerful intuition that doing something altogether different would be EVEN MORE awesome. More on this in later posts.
You don’t need to not-go to university to hate it. Let me tell you, you can only really learn to hate university by enrolling…