Disclaimer â I find these reads interesting. I don’t necessarily agree with them.Â
#Bestof / Most Shared
These are links that I find myself sharing with other people the most, or links that return to over and over again.
- Everything Is A Remix [48:41]Â â all-time favorite video, this relieved a lot of creative anxiety for me. Don’t obsess about trying to be original, because everything is derivative. Just aim to consume good content, create whatever you can (which will be informed by whatever you’re consuming, no matter what) and aim to remix artfully. This informed my essay “letter to a young songwriter” â don’t obsess about being great or having fun, just strive to be prolific.
- The Information: How The Internet Gets Inside Us [2011] Adam Gopnik essay about how people are affected by information and media over time. All-time favorite essay, for many different reasons. I tweeted about this.
- David S Rose’s answer to Why are there crushed stones alongside rail tracks? I find myself looking up this answer so many times because I find the idea here presented so powerful, and grounded (heh) in real practice. I did a Twitter thread about this.
- Wordy Weapons of Is-Ought Alloy â ” It should be standard practice to say âI reject your vocabularyâ, instead of âyouâre wrongâ, âthatâs just your opinionâ, or whatever. It would force the conversation into one of two paths: either the point is restated in more neutral terms, or it becomes clear that a substantive point is not, well, the point, and that the goal is to impose vocabulary. Then the conversation can either continue in a constructive manner or end promptly.”
- BBC: China bans âeroticâ banana-eating live streams This is one of my favorite news stories of all time. Basically young girls are eating bananas erotically for horny men to jerk off to, and presumably they must be getting good money for it. It’s interesting to me because it demonstrates the cat-and-mouse nature of human sexuality.
- The Secret Lives Of Tumblr Teens â A hearty exploration of what it’s like to grow up on Tumblr. Really does justice to the inner and social lives of teenagers. I find myself sharing this with people whenever they ask something along the lines of “What are teenagers like these days?” â though this is already becoming quickly outdated.
- Melting Asphalt â Ads Donât Work That Way â it’s not about what you personally think about the brand, it’s about the collective impression/understanding of the brand.
- Knowing Less â The Trauma Narrative ⠓Young girls are genitally mutilated. Did all the children of these cultures grow up with deep traumas? In a sense, probably not â if all the adults act like itâs no big deal, then you as a kid donât think itâs a big deal either, and will probably never think itâs a big deal, and youâll grow up and mutilate your own daughter the same way you were mutilated, because tradition. These people would probably strongly deny being traumatized, much like I didnât believe I was traumatized â at least in the narrative sense â in stage 2. They also probably donât experience the suffering that I did in stage 3, and in that sense have better lives.”
- The “Some Asshole” Initiative â the simple and powerful idea that we shouldn’t give media attention to mass shooters.
- The Gervais Principle â a really extensive, thoughtful exploration into the nature of relationships in the workplace.
- Geeks, MOPs, and sociopaths in subculture evolution â very succinct, clear articulation of how cool is born, nourished, and then how things go wrong from there.
- Social Gentrification â When we see a toxic environment, it can be tempting to clean it up. But this can be pretty tough on the people who were in that environment precisely because they’re so bad at adapting to any other context.
- Tweetstorm about Gamergate â A lot of the conflict on the Internet can be made sense of as a culture war between people who have different ideas about identity.
- Bill Burr’s description of racist old men [2:18]Â “His parents were part of the generation that finished off the genocide of the Native Americans. That’s who taught him his ABCs.”
- TVtropes â Flanderization â simple to understand concept
- Narrative cycles in the tech media â I often find myself referencing this when talking about media cycles. The author wrote a similar post about the concept of “narrative gravity“.
- Remember â Wanderweird â this is a reminder to open your mind, that the map is not the territory.
- The Flinch â about subconscious aversion to things, a sort of self-preservation impulse
- LessWrong â Ugh Fields â the psychology of why we avoid things that we know we shouldn’t be avoiding
- @buster’s cognitive bias cheat sheet (bit.ly/thinking-is-hard/) â TMI, not enough meaning, not enough time&resources, not enough memory
- âEthicsâ is advertising â Vividness â the title alone is fantastic
- Disintermediation Theory by Taylor Pearson â “If you want to improve the outcome youâre getting, you donât ask for people in power to be âniceâ or âfairâ or âjust,â you disintermediate the people that have power and distribute it to more people.”
- Access Denied, on the future of media post-disintermediated by social media
- Someone on Twitter has a compelling argument that since facts are now democratized, media organizations are mainly in the business of manufacturing takes.
- The Toxoplasma of Rage “Every community on Tumblr somehow gets enmeshed with the people most devoted to making that community miserable […] if memes spread by outrage they adapt to become as outrage-inducing as possible.”
- Right Is The New Left â I really like this post for its ability to explain fashion very well, as a game of signals and countersignals. I reference this one often.
- The Ideology Is Not The Movement â about the tribal impulse, explaining things like why many deaf people don’t want to be cured, how the rationalist community began, etc. “Since the Gamer Tribe has no designated cultural spaces except video games forums and magazines, they view this as an incursion into their cultural spaces and a threat to their existence as a tribe.”
- Jon Kabat-Zinn: Coming to our senses [57:20]Â â About the power and importance of mindfulness â dropping on yourself to say “hello, are you there?”
- Randy Pausch Last Lecture: Achieving Your Childhood Dreams [1:16:26] â I watch this every year or so. It’s really wholesome and encouraging.
- People are violent because their morality demands itâââTage RaiâââAeon At the same time, if violence is motivated by moral sentiments, what is it motivated toward? [..] Across all cases, perpetrators are using violence to create, conduct, sustain, enhance, transform, honour, protect, redress, repair, end, and mourn valued relationships. [..] The purpose of violence is to sustain a moral order.
- The righteous mind “If you think that moral reasoning is something we do to figure out the truth, youâll be constantly frustrated by how foolish, biased, and illogical people become when they disagree with you. But if you think about moral reasoning as a skill we humans evolved to further our social agendasâto justify our own actions and to defend the teams we belong toâthen things will make a lot more sense. Keep your eye on the intuitions, and donât take peopleâs moral arguments at face value. Theyâre mostly post hoc constructions made up on the fly, crafted to advance one or more strategic objectives.”
- Emotional Labor, the MetaFilter thread â Very eye-opening read for men to get a sense of the burdens women deal with.
- A millennial and a baby boomer trade places â Always nice when people from different backgrounds and perspectives get to see the other person’s point of view.
- Why is it hard to scale a database, in laymanâs terms? â a very accessible way to thinking about the problems of scaling
- Parable of the Polygons â about racism and migration. All of ncase’s games are great.
- SMBCâââ”Each group is some percent crazy assholes.” â simple and strong visual.
- What makes an entrepreneurial ecosystem?âââWelcome to TheFamily â very considered exploration of the variables that influence the ecosystem, with examples of how different ecosystems look different.
- history of japan [9:00]Â â Entertaining and informative. There should be more videos like this.
- Deceit And I [3:26]Â â very powerful personal story
- Tact filters “So, nerds need to understand that normal people have to apply tact to everything they say; they become really uncomfortable if they can’t do this. Normal people need to understand that despite the fact that nerds are usually tactless, things they say are almost never meant personally and shouldn’t be taken that way. Both types of people need to be extra patient when dealing with someone whose tact filter is backwards relative to their own.”
- Ra “When you give your opinion, it sounds like you think you’re smart.” / “I’ve spent a lot of time feeling ashamed of ‘thinking out loud’ in public”.
#Biographies, Profiles, Interviews
- [shared frequently] Kobe Bryant Will Always Be an All-Star of Talking “I have friends. But being a âgreat friendâ is something I will never be. I can be a good friend. But not a great friend. A great friend will call you every day and remember your birthday. Iâll get so wrapped up in my shit, Iâll never remember that stuff. And the people who are my friends understand this, and theyâre usually the same way. You gravitate toward people who are like you. But the kind of relationships you see in moviesâthatâs impossible for me. I have good relationships with players around the league. LeBron and I will text every now and then. KG and I will text every now and then. But in terms of having one of those great, bonding friendshipsâthatâs something I will probably never have. And itâs not some smug thing. Itâs a weakness. Itâs a weakness.”
- For Arianna Huffington and Kobe Bryant: First, Success. Then Sleep. â I think I liked this because it was so interesting to see how two people who you would think probably don’t have a lot in common… have a lot in common?
- [shared + revisited] HBR: Philippe Starck I like the stuff he makes and I think he has some good ideas about how to make things.
- Thread of Steve Jobs quotes
- Richard Feynman thread
#Biz:
- /u/ClownFundamentals on accounting in large companies “Here’s one simple example. Suppose you sell beer and make $100 each year. Now you buy a factory for $1,000. How do you account for this?” â it gets interestingly complicated.
- Why Amazon Is The Best Strategic Player In Tech [2011]Â â It’s interesting to see how it was possible for some people to tell really on that Amazon was going to be this successful.
- HN â Google makes so much money, it never has to worry about financial discipline â This story highlights what I call the “spray tan fallacy” â just because bodybuilders get spray tans, doesn’t mean that getting a spray tan will make you look more like a bodybuilder. Google isn’t necessarily the way it is because of its unique practices â it can afford its unique practices because of its monopoly on search advertising.
- The $500 Million Battle Over Disneyâs Princesses â Disney is a fascinating company to me. They started out by taking folk tales and making them “sexier” for kids â which means cuter, more family-friendly, colorful and so on. And they own Marvel, and Star Wars. It feels to me like Disney is going to be a huge empire for quite some time, because now it’s the place that aspiring storytellers seek out as a place to work. I wonder what it would take for Disney to go out of business?
- The Pop Analytics ecosystem ⠓Ultimately, Pop Analytics is a reflection of an ecosystem that is designed to move cash from my client base to Analytics vendors.”
- Why Do So Many Zippers Say YKK? [Slate] Cool story about the company that makes zippers for pretty much everybody.
- What do people with office jobs do all day? â this one is interesting because you get to hear all sorts of different responses from different people
#Careers (for creatives in particular)
I highly recommend reading The War Of Art, by Stephen Pressfield. Watch Everything Is A Remix.
- Your elusive creative genius [19:09] â I reference this one quite often. It’s about having a healthy relationship with yourself as a creator. People give too much credit to creators, both when things go well and when things go badly. A creator’s job is to create. People aren’t mystical geniuses, they’re people.
- Micropatronship: Amanda Palmerâs TED Talk â The Art Of Asking [13:47]Â â Amanda Palmer understands the nature of how communities work, what it means to make something cool and to have other people involved in that. Cross-reference this with “Geeks, Mops and Sociopaths”.
#Civilization
I think a lot about how modern civilization is so… sick. Everything is industrialized, commoditized. I want to understand it better, so that I can hopefully live with it better. I have an ongoing essay about this.
- George Carlin â It’s A Big Club, And You Ain’t In It [3m]
- Your Lifestyle Has Already Been Designed â consumption patterns, working hours, etc.
- What was the role of fishing in civ development? It wasnât agriculture and husbandry but the need to fish that shaped society and the modern world, argues Brian Fagan
- A Little Big Idea Called Legibility
- Sideways Look At Time
- Columbine: Whose Fault Is It? â Marilyn Manson wrote this in 1999. Almost 20 years later, everything is still relevant.
#Celebrity #Fame
I have a lot of sympathy for celebrities. I think it’s pretty crazy what they go through. It’s not normal, and it’s not healthy. There’s a reason why so many celebrities end up committing suicide, or have substance addiction problems. I have a separate post about this here:Â The Seductive-Destructive Siren-Song of Fame
“Thatâs the trouble with being me. At this point, nobody gives a damn what my problem is. I could literally have a tumor on the side of my head and theyâd be like, âYeah, big deal. Iâd eat a tumor every morning for the kinda money youâre pulling down.” â Jim Carrey
- Another Jim Carrey quote: âI think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that itâs not the answer.â
- “The minute you have the means to take responsibility for your own dreams and can be held accountable for whether they come true or not, life is a lot tougher. Itâs easy to have wonderful thoughts when the chance to implement them is remote. When youâve gotten to a place where you at least have a chance of implementing your ideas, thereâs a lot more responsibility in that.” â Steve Jobs, 1985 Playboy Interview
- Taylor Swift on People Who Call Her âCalculatingâ
- “I feel like a zoo animal” â The Ballad of Justin Bieber
- Kesha Opens Up About Overcoming Her Eating Disorder and How She Found Happiness
- Russell Brand on Amy Winehouse: ‘We have lost a beautiful, talented woman’Â â very moving
- Demi Lovato
- People blaming Ariana Grande for her ex’s death
#Class:
- Inside the Secretive World of Elite Wealth Management âThe secret point of money and power is neither the things that money can buy nor power for powerâs sakeâŚbut absolute personal freedom, mobility, privacy.â
- What the Rich Won’t Tell You “Then she made a confession: She took the price tags off her clothes so that her nanny would not see them. âI take the label off our six-dollar bread,â she said.”
#Comedy
Comedy is very interesting and important to me. How do you make people laugh? Comedy is one of the most powerful ways to tell the truth in a way that people actually accept.
- Gervais, Louis CK, Chris Rock, Seinfeld â Talking Funny [49:32]Â â I’ve revisited this a few times. It’s interesting to see a few different people discussing their craft with one another. I quite enjoy Seinfeld’s “Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee” for the same reason.
- How Wile E. Coyote explains the world â I love this one for the idea that “life is a joke â your expectations are the setup and reality is the punchline.”
- Chris Rock 2014 interview â “You keep notes. You look for the recurring. Whatâs not going away? Boy, this police-brutality thing â it seems to be lingering. Whatâs going to happen here? You donât even have the joke, you just say, âOkay, whatâs the new angle that makes me not sound like a preacher?â Forget being a comedian, just act like a reporter. Whatâs the question that hasnât been asked? How come white kids donât get shot? “
#Death
We’re all going to die. I think it’s very important to come to terms with it.
- Louis C.K. Hates Cell PhonesââââUnderneath everything⌠youâre forever empty⌠that knowledge that itâs all for nothing and youâre alone. [âŚ] Life is tremendously sad just by being in it. People are willing to risk taking lives and ruining their own because they donât want to be alone for a second because itâs so hard. [âŚ] You never feel completely sad or completely happy, youâre just feel kinda satisfied with your products and then you die.â
- Oliver Sacks: My Periodic Table â An admirable life.
- Existential Riddles âA man turned off the light and went to bed. Because of this, several people died. Why?â âThe man lives in a lighthouse; when he turned off the light, two ships crashed. For months, the man is wracked with guiltâââhow could he forget to keep the light on? What was he thinking? Years pass. The man moves to a small inland town. He attends group therapy regularly. At one session, he meets a widow of three years. She is beautiful in a quiet way. They get married. She never questions why he refuses to turn off the lights at night. Days become decades. They donât have children, but they are happy together. One day, the man visits an antique shop and breaks down sobbing when he sees a ship in a bottle. He asks his wife to drive him to the ocean. She does. She knows not to ask why. They arrive. The man forgives himself. He finally forgives himself.â
- Life and Donuts, by Pablo Stanley â Life doesn’t make sense. Find someone you can share donuts with.
- How to tell a mother her child is dead. â I will show you: If it were my mother you would say, âMrs. Rosenberg. I have terrible, terrible news. Naomi died today.â You say it out loud until you can say it clearly and loudly. How loudly? Loudly enough. If it takes you fewer than five tries you are rushing it and you will not do it right. You take your time.
- A protocol for dying â written by someone in preparation for his own death.
- Suicide notes “These suicide notes were gathered at the coronersâ offices by a suicidologist/psychiatrist who asked to be anonymous. He edited identifying details out of the compiled manuscript, and we changed the names. But the text of each letter plus the age and sex given are real. All these people did kill themselves. Were they ambivalent about it? About half the hundred or so letters we saw seemed to have some element of doubt.”
- Learning to Measure Time in Love and Loss âIâm constantly aware of lost opportunities. I used to think such lost opportunities were beautiful towns flashing by my train windows, but now I imagine they are lanterns from the past, casting light on whatâs ahead.â
- On Mother’s Day, my Mom asked me to help end her life “If I were your mother, would you advise me to do these things?” After a long pause, he replied, “No.”
#Drawing, Photography, Visual Design, Film
- Understanding Comics TEDtalk by Scott McCloud [17:08]Â â Very, very good book
- An examination of the use of light in movies â beautiful and also technically interesting
- The cinematography of The Incredibles â really beautiful show-and-tell of the power of framing.
- Film/architecture â Nakatomi Space â this essay persuaded me to watch the movie Die Hard, which has a lot more personality and love put into it than I had expected before going in.
- Michael Babwahsinghâs Visual Thinking (related: Bret Victor recommends a book about comics)
- Essay about animation, Line of Action, visual vocabulary
- Helpful Drawing Tips â Imgur
- Drawing tutorials and references http://imgur.com/gallery/yKd0YÂ
- creative work John Berger: For the artist, drawing is discovery
- photography Quick intro to photography
- design How ‘design thinking’ became a buzzword at school
#Drugs
I like reading about drugs. Part of it is because they’re still quite taboo in contemporary modern society. There’s something very compelling to me about altered states of mind.
- Eat Pray Roll What’s really great about this one is how the writer articulates… everything. Feelings, expectations, a sense of novelty… “What I want is a vacation from myself. Iâve tried exercise, meditation, sex, and food. I wait for the desire to plan a wedding or have a kid or buy a house and when those things donât take hold or are plainly untenable, I get my aura read. I open a trillion tabs of internet and drink it in. I gorge on studies about magnets that make you think differently and begin researching the properties of crystals. I donât think about any of it as self-help because thatâs way too pathetic, certainly more than the itchy meh I feel. I want to hurl my brain into outer space; itâs real, real quiet there, the ultimate holiday of feeling small. But because Iâm not pregnant and donât have cancer, I just want to do drugs again.”
- Russell Brand: my life without drugs âI still survey streets for signs of the subterranean escapes that used to provide my sanctuary. I still eye the shuffling subclass of junkies and dealers, invisibly gliding between doorways through the gutters. I see that dereliction can survive in opulence; the abundantly wealthy with destitution in their stare.â
- /u/AellaGirl â I did so much acid I almost died “Acid was exactly the opposite. It heightened senses, heightened what I was aware of in my own mind, let me explore the way my own thoughts formed. It took what I was and shoved my own face in it. I couldn’t look away. There were times of deliberately induced and absolutely excruciating emotional pain, to which nothing in my regular life has ever come close. I did it on purpose. I needed to know.”
- Generation Adderall
- The Trip Treatment
- The Man Who Invented the Drug Memoir
- Legalize It All
- A Natural Fix for ADHD
- Atlantic â The Science of Choice in Addiction
- HN â Researchers are beginning to disentangle pain relief from addiction and overdose
- Chris Arnade’s Faces Of Addiction
#Education, #Learning, #School
- One of my favorite things in education is a video of a teacher in Australia blowing his students’ minds [3:33]. It so delightfully captures the joy of learning.
- Similarly, here’s an excellent transcript of a teacher teaching his kids about binary via the Socratic method
#Fashion
- Atlantic: Why American Workers Now Dress So Casually â the author has some interesting links on her Twitter
- The Great Gatsby’s Fabulous Betrayal of 1920s Fashion
- Twitter thread
Games
Gaming was a big part of my childhood growing up. I think they are an incredibly interesting and important artistic medium â one of the few things that really gets the “audience” involved.
- A Spectreâs Life for Me: Why I Like âMass Effectâ Better than âStar Warsâ (or any other sci-fi)Â #SciFi
- Simcity that I used to know
- Play chess against a transparent intelligence
- Lessons from Game Design, by Will Wright [1:42:10]
- ELI5: How can multiplayer games send information back and forth to players in split-second combat (including processing time), but it takes 2 seconds to load a basic webpage?
- Factors that make a video game cosy
Geopolitics
A 21st-Century Migrantâs Essentials: Food, Shelter, Smartphone â This is a story about the details of being a refugee that really sticks with me
- Chinese Maternity Tourists and the Business of Being Born American I liked this one because it’s so… real?
- Life in authoritarian regimes is mostly boring and tolerable â
- Bill Maher â The American Embargo [04:35] An entertaining video from Bill Maher about the frustrations of trying to change outdated systems incrementally.
Giftedness
#History
- Paint-by-numbers history spreadsheet
- Revival: The Muslim Response to the Crusades
- My grandparents survived the Cultural Revolution: have I inherited their trauma?
- The forgotten history of how automakers invented the crime of jaywalking â The title alone here is so powerful
- Liberating Iraq “Violence is not a way of getting where you want to go, only more quickly. Its existence changes your destination.”
Human interest
- My father was an abusive sociopath, and I was all he had left
- Everything is yours, everything is not yours â powerful story of a woman who escaped genocide
- âWeâre the Only Plane in the Skyâ â GWB after 9/11
- Dan Majesky talks about his and his wifeâs experiences with miscarriage and trying to conceive. Heartfelt. Honest. Really good read. Makes me want to share more of myself with others, if and when it can be of service.
- Medium: Find a Better Way â a really moving, rousing commencement speech by Jeff Huber, a Googler who lost his wife to cancer.
- death of a troll
- The $5,000 decision to get rid of my past
- philosophy existential philosophers & fatherhood
- Never mind the bus pass: punks look back at their wildest days
- Cafe Hopping: Four Weekends With My Mother-in-law â a blogpost by Jayne, who used to work in the office next to mine. I love how sincerely and passionately Jayne loves food, and almost anything she writes about it is just delicious to read. Enjoy.
#Identity
- Bret Easton Ellis on Living in the Cult of Likability âNo matter how genuine or authentic we think we are, we are still manufacturing a construct.â
- To Body Mod Away From Brownness And Back I’ve revisited this piece by Alok Vaid-Menon several times â “Now white boys in Brooklyn are sewing hair onto their faces in the same city where brown boys still have scars from ripping it off. […] Just a decade ago, my peers were flinging words like “terrorist” and “faggot” to me in the halls of our high school. Now I’m “trendy” and “fierce.” Either assessment rings lonely and desperate.”
- The Queer Poor Aesthetic
#Internet
- The Internet Has An Oral Culture
- Why you should quit the internet (Supernormal Stimuli)
- How the web was won [2008]
- Fuck you and die: An oral history of Something Awful
- How a Small Group of Devotees Are Saving Neopets From Extinction
- I Used to Be a Human Being
- The secret rules of the internet
- When Memes Are Therapy (for people of color and queer folk)
- 2017 Meme Documentation
- A Culture Gap the Size of an Ocean, Bridged by Facebook
- Bits of Me “She is a pastiche of my patched-together digital detritus.”
- My So-Called (Instagram) Life
- askreddit â what are the best forgotten things on the internet?
- Why Tinder-like apps are the way of the future â tech, design
Insight Porn
Disregard ideas, acquire assets ⠓When I talk about assets, cash is the least interesting of all of these. Instead, I’m talking about more intangible assets like skills, reputation, relationships, attention & fame. I’m of the strong opinion that the most reliable path towards startup success is to focus relentlessly on acquiring interesting assets and then execute on the startups that naturally fall out of them.”
Undercover Economist â Keyhole Surgery
Liminal spaces â places where reality is a little altered
How many lightbulbs does it take to change a person?
Breaking Smart Newsletter: Ambiguity vs Uncertainty â Iâve always liked thinking about how creative work feels different in different contexts and under different constraints. Venkat really explores this well with his classic 2Ă2 graphs, distinguishing between ambiguity (do I know what Iâm looking at?) and uncertainty (is there a clear answer?). Play happens when things are the right amount of ambiguous and the right amount of uncertain. Too much or too little of either and it gets boring, frustrating, etc.
- Against Murderism | Slate Star Codex
- Transcript of Reboot 11 speech by Bruce Sterling, 25-6-2009 | WIRED
- Modeling Tutorial
- leaves in the hand: unskillfulness “But at the beginning, it starts with learning to ask the right kinds of questions, such as, “Is what I intend to do here skillful or unskillful? Will it lead to well-being or harm?”
- Crash-Only Thinking
- The value of a life
- Technology, Serendipity and Society
- Internal exile
- How Culture Influences Our Minds in Profound Ways We Donât Even Realize â how different people around the world think differently â analytic vs holistic, east vs west
- Alan Watts â 8 quotes
- The Idea Of Owning Land (1985, 1997)Â territoriality
#Language
- Etymologists of reddit, what is your favorite story of how a word came to be?
- The strange persistence of first languages
- Turn-taking rules in Japanese
- Learning Arabic from Egyptâs Revolution
#Mindfulness, Mindset, Mind, Cognition
- Hacking the attention economy
- How I got my attention back
- The American Scholar: Solitude and Leadership â William Deresiewicz â leadership is very lonely. So if you’re going to be a leader, you’re going to have to get comfortable with it.
- How to be a stoic
- How to Develop Mental Toughness: Lessons From 8 Titans
- Life as a non-violent psychopath
- Why Walking Helps Us Think
#Management (Organizations)
- ReferralCandy: How We Manage â my (former) team put together a document about our management principles. Itâs loosely influenced in parts by Ray Dalioâs Principles and Andy Groveâs High Output Management. Weâre proud of it, and Iâd love to hear your thoughts on it.
- Scale yourself
- Killing over-communication: an internal memo from our foundersâââThe Asana Blog
- Startup Lessons from WP Engine founder, Jason Cohen
- 10 Key Andy Grove Quotes on Leadership from High Output Management
- The Tyranny of Structurelessness â no such thing as a structureless group
#Media
- âI Only Read It For The Interviewsâ | Hazlitt Magazine
- Why I Blame TV for Trump â A former cable host says the industry utterly caved to the candidate. âI know from personal experience that it is common practice for TV anchors to have substantial bonuses written into their contracts if they hit ratings marks. With this 2016 presidential soap opera, they are almost surely hitting those marks. So, we get all Trump, all the time.â
- Inside the secret sisterhood of the women who worked at Playboy Turns out Playboy was a really great place to work, even for the women
- Understanding Media â Marshall Mcluhan
#Money / Finance / $$$$
- How Money Became the Measure of Everything â Atlantic
- ELI5:If I had $10 trillion and wanted to pay off the U.S.’s national debt, whom do i pay?
- Can someone explain why McDonalds stock is only $99.56, and Chipotle’s is $
- a1988eli comments on What do insanely wealthy people buy, that ordinary peo
- How Should You Manage Your Money? And Keep It Short – The New York Times
- Money How Helicopter money works
- Days in the life of a financial advisor
- Universal Basic Income
- The race to retirement
- Early retirement extreme
- Economics-Comics â TPP
- Art Of Money Getting â 20 steps by PT Barnum, 1880
- Ribbonfarm money series
#Race
- Aamer Khan’s standup bit about reverse racism [2:49] â succinct and punchy
- Lupita Nyongâo and Trevor Noah, and Their Meaningful Roles Trevor Noah: “But you know the irony of #OscarsSoWhite? If you were talking with two white people, they would get to discuss their achievements, their hopes and dreams, maybe a passion project. But we canât not talk about the Oscars, or we get, âDonât you care?â But if we do, we get, âIs that all you talk about?â Itâs a vicious cycle.”
- I taught my black kids that their elite upbringing would protect them from discrimination. I was wrong.
- Why Do We Humanize White Guys Who Kill People?
- What Itâs Really Like to Work in Hollywood (*If youâre not a straight white man.)
- The Two Asian AmericasâââThe New Yorker
- ‘You look like the help’: the disturbing link between Asian skin color and status. ⠔ I have graciously thanked strangers for insisting that I have mixed heritage and that I donât look like the typical Filipino. Given the global disdain for our darker skin and our roles as caregivers, itâs no wonder we find comfort in being mistaken for someone weâre not.”
- Atlantic â Letter to my Son, by Ta-Nehisi Coates A black father writes to his 15 year old son.
- A Guide to Fantasy and Science Fiction Made for Black People, by Black People
#Religion
How I Believe In God, Roger Ebert
#Science
- Entropy explained, with sheep
- The Colossal Pile of Jibberish Behind Discovery, and Its Implications for Science FundingâââThe Crux
- How One Woman’s Discovery Shook the Foundations of Geology
- The DIY Scientist, the Olympian, and the Mutated Gene â one of my all-time favorite stories. The “DIY Scientist” lady is my hero.
#Sex, #Gender:
- How the Hollywood Redemption Machine Works, According to BoJack Horseman ⠓Philbert serves as a vehicle for BoJackâs ambitious meta-critique of how Hollywood consistently glorifies, humanizes, enables, and forgives bad menâfictional or otherwise.”
- The Habits of Highly Erotic People
- Buzzfeed â 21 Of The Greatest Examples Of Fragile Masculinity In 2015
- The Women in My Family Had to Be Good With MoneyÂ
- What’s a girl worth?
- Ways of seeing â âA woman is always accompanied, except when quite alone, and perhaps even then, by her own image of herself. While she is walking across a room or weeping at the death of her father, she cannot avoid envisioning herself walking or weeping. From earliest childhood she is taught and persuaded to survey herself continually. She has to survey everything she is and everything she does, because how she appears to others â and particularly how she appears to men â is of crucial importance for what is normally thought of as the success of her life.â
- Life of a call girl: Fantasy vs Reality
- Deep Inside: A study of 10,000 porn stars and their careers
- The foul reign of the biological clock It seems like the concept of the biological clock has been with us forever. In fact, the metaphor was invented in the late 1970s. And it has been used to reinforce sexist ideas ever since
- The Fierce Triumph of Loneliness “In pop culture we have âthe bachelor pad,â and âthe bachelor lifestyle,â but no such phrases for women.”
- What does it mean when we call women girls? “When you become a woman is when people come out of your vagina and step on your dreams.”
- I Get So Annoyed When ‘Cool’ Young Women Say They Are Not Feminists: Arundhati Roy
- Bottom-Of-The-Barrel Cuckold Fetishist, Or Spinster Hoax? As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. Itâs her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, sheâll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed beside me, and tell me all about how she and Paulo had sex. I wonât explode with anger or seethe with resentment. Iâll tell her itâs a hot story and Iâm glad she had fun. Itâs hot because sheâs excited, and Iâm glad because Iâm a feminist.
- Recommendations from FemalePersuasion: Faludi’s Backlash, @LizzieWurtzel’s Bitch, @naomirwolf’s The Beauty Myth, Eve Ensler
- Someone stole naked pictures of me. This is what I did about it â video
- “Hypergamy”
- /r/seduction FAQ, 2
- 32 types of antifeminists
- The Dismal State of Flirting in English-Speaking Cultures
- How can you tell if you’re being sexually objectified? It’s about who has the power
- The Meaning of Manhood
- The Opposite of Rape Culture is Nurturance Culture
- Loving MachinesâââDorothy Howard âDoes sleeping with your laptop make you feel less alone?â
- Hipsters broke my gaydar “But since you now all wear carabiners as key chains, we lesbians no longer have any private signals to each other. Weâre all screwed, except none of us are, because we canât find one another anymore.”
- Economics of sex
- Self-Made Man, Norah Vincent [18:42]
- Rules of attraction: Why white men marry Asian women and Asian men don’t ma
- A graphic history of sex âIt is difficult to live intimately, because we want perfect love and perfect sex and that is very difficult in a long-term relationship. We want a lot more than a reliable person to raise kids with.â
- Esports Sees Profit in Attracting Female Gamers
- Women Are Writing the Best Crime Novels â They donât seem to believe in heroes as much as their male counterparts, which in some ways makes their storytelling a better fit for the times.
- Dominant or Submissive? Paradox of Power in Sexual Relations
Girlboss â is Sophia Amoruso a feminist icon?
#Startups
- Entrepreneurs Are The New Labor
- Employee #1: Dropbox
- tech How Stockholm became a unicorn factory Volvo, IKEA, H&M, Absolut, Ericsson, King
- What makes an entrepreneurial ecosystem?âââWelcome to TheFamily â very compelling
#Technology
- The Entire History Of Steel
- What is a keyboard shortcut that everyone must know?
- Raspberry Pi: How To Get Started (Not Food)
- 50 Mind-Blowing Implications of Self-Driving Cars (and Trucks)
- Marc Andreessen on the future of Enterprise
- TED â Kevin Kelly, How Technology Evolves [20:00]
- Benedict Evans â Office, messaging and verbs
- technology The Deployment Age
- tech a brief history of tech bullshit
- Ben Thompson â Slack and the state of technology at the end of 2015
- The American Cloud
- Peter Thiel explains himself
- TV Tech How “Silicon Valley” Nails Silicon Valley
- https://sites.google.com/site/steveyegge2/tour-de-babel  about the various programming languages. check out steve yegge in general, he also has a great post about borderlands 2 and the token economy. and the amazon posts, of course. see also ‘you should write a blog‘.
#Thinking
- BetterExplained â Rote details are the arrows, intuition is the bow
- Michel Foucault’s Concepts
- How to become better at smelling and avoiding the many varieties of bullshit
- BetterExplainedâââQuick Reference Guide
- The Socratic Method How to teach Binary to children.
- Why Do Students Struggle So Much in Math Class?
- Michel Foucault’s concepts
- Maps are imperfect but that’s okay, by Simon Wardley
- 42 life lessons and business quotes from Li Ka Shing
- Harold Pinter’s Nobel Speech on Art, Truth and Politics
- Farnam Street’s Mental Models and Reading
- NYMag â Why You Truly Never Leave High School
- The ‘Just World’ Myth, Part 1Â and Part 2
- Ben Barnanke â the world isn’t fair and you all got lucky
- Ribbonfarm’s How to be an Idea Person
- LessWrong’s How To Save The World and Ugh Fields. Purchase Fuzzies and Utilons separately.
- Michael Babwahsingh’s Visual Thinking (related: Bret Victor recommends a book about comics)
- TED â Michael Shermer: The pattern behind self-deception
- How I lost faith in the pro-life movement (the biggest killer is a woman’s own body)
- Rate of learning: The most valuable startup compensation
- Tempo Book Blog
- Vox â 38 maps that explain the global economy
- Jason Cohen: Real Unfair AdvantagesÂ
- Information Is Beautiful â Rhetological Fallacies
#Time (the nature of)
- How train travel put the whole world on the clock
- /r/askhistorians â how did people wake up on time in the past
- /r/showerthoughts â I don’t think we’re thankful enough that the whole world agreed on the same units of time.
- Atlantic â A brief economic history of time
- Time The Disease of Being Busy
- Why time management is ruining our lives
- Pendulum [3:04]
Politics
- The Smug Style Of American Liberalism I’m reminded of a quote from The Newsroom â if liberals are so goddamn smart why do they lose so goddamn always?
- The Paranoid Style in American Politics â Looks like Americans have been paranoid about things for a long time.
Marketing
- Marketing, Innovation and the Creation of Customers â This post captures my personal perspective on what marketing really is. A customer is a novel and stable pattern of human behavior.
- Steve Jobs â Marketing Is About Values [7:00]â “It’s a very complicated, noisy world. We’re not going to get a chance to get people to remember much about us. No company is. So we have to be really clear on what we want them to know about us.”
- Teslaâs â$0 Marketing Budgetâ is Awesome Marketing â I wrote this one, and it’s partially a riff off of Seth Godin’s idea that “BMW has a marketing team called engineering.”
- Real Engines Of Growth Have Nothing To Do With Growth Hacking
- scams / branding The untold story of Napoleon Hill
- The Price is Right – What advertising does to TV
- Don’t sell a product, sell a whole new way of thinking
- Why I left advertising
#War
- Army officer /u/nightowl1135 on the ambiguity of war ” The “ACM” we were positive we were watching emplace IED’s on a notorious route were just farmers irrigating their fields. This is just one small anecdote that shows how literally hundreds of different activities and things can look VVVVEERRRYYY different from 30,000 feet up through a thermal lens. Ever heard of the saying: “When your a hammer… everything looks like a nail”?”
- The Tragedy of the American Military â “We love our troops but we’d rather not think about them”. “If I were writing such a history now, I would call it Chickenhawk Nation, based on the derisive term for those eager to go to war, as long as someone else is going. It would be the story of a country willing to do anything for its military except take it seriously.”
- Army Deploys Old Tactic in PR War â body counts â can victory be measured by counting the enemy dead? A very powerful way to think about metrics.